I am, I’m just trying to figure out what’s going on… The more women that falsely accuse, the less likely it seems that I’m ever going to have a chance in society. They seem to take it so lightly, they must not have a reputation to damage. I know that rape has damaged my reputation many times over. Luckily, the statute of limitations in my home state is 15 years, to account for people like me who don’t have the emotional stability.
I re-read the article and they were saying that there was vaginal damage in the Kobe Bryant case- so I made a mistake...I don’t know why they included that though. Here’s the article if you are interested:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12096835/
Is it true that this woman in the Kobe Bryant case had severe vaginal damage, and that Kobe got out scot free? I can’t remember how it ended (/me feels like unlearning student again)...Or is it that she blamed her rape on Kobe? Because if the guy got out clear, I’m afraid I have no case...mine will claim insanity, having been put in isolated classrooms previously for violent behavior. And of course every rapist claims that YOU wanted it. Mine claimed that my injury brought us together, and then complained that his headache was the worst thing in the world. Now it’s his turn to make up for the post-traumatic stress disorder, the 3 counselors, the surgery and doctors’ appointments…
Watching these cases, I wonder if I still do have a case. These people shed a bad light on the rest of us. And I’m also afraid of being judged.
student student - 05:04pm on 04/25/2006
Obviously rape is the most hideous crime. However falsely accusing rape is just as bad. (It’s the false accusation that makes it so). It’s terrible that false accusations do happen.
In Kobe Bryants case it the accuser backed out. If you read his statement to the police he admitted to having sex with her but claimed it was consensual.
There was some talk of evidence where she had sex with another guy right after (or before) Kobe. Therefore the "damage" didn’t necessarily come from having sex with Kobe.
Personally I think she was a messed up character looking to cash in. But I don’t know anything special.
The Whistler - 05:04pm on 04/25/2006
I have to agree with you on that…
I’m also scared of filing charges right now, even though I’m doing it for closure, and yes, for justice. I have to tell them what I want out of it, and I don’t know exactly what to expect. I read up on the law, and he gets a minimum of 10 years in prison. How can I guarantee that he is not going to come after me when that time is up? How can I guarantee that he is not going to come after me if I do a trial?
I would be curious to see how long ago this rape was, compared to when the trial started. There are certain things that need to be addressed first before you even bother with this kind of stuff. First and foremost, I would want privacy and safety. But I wonder if they can help that at all?
That woman in the Kobe Bryant case sounds like a gold digger for sure.
I am, I’m just trying to figure out what’s going on… The more women that falsely accuse, the less likely it seems that I’m ever going to have a chance in society. They seem to take it so lightly, they must not have a reputation to damage. I know that rape has damaged my reputation many times over. Luckily, the statute of limitations in my home state is 15 years, to account for people like me who don’t have the emotional stability.
I re-read the article and they were saying that there was vaginal damage in the Kobe Bryant case- so I made a mistake...I don’t know why they included that though. Here’s the article if you are interested:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12096835/
Is it true that this woman in the Kobe Bryant case had severe vaginal damage, and that Kobe got out scot free? I can’t remember how it ended (/me feels like unlearning student again)...Or is it that she blamed her rape on Kobe? Because if the guy got out clear, I’m afraid I have no case...mine will claim insanity, having been put in isolated classrooms previously for violent behavior. And of course every rapist claims that YOU wanted it. Mine claimed that my injury brought us together, and then complained that his headache was the worst thing in the world. Now it’s his turn to make up for the post-traumatic stress disorder, the 3 counselors, the surgery and doctors’ appointments…
Watching these cases, I wonder if I still do have a case. These people shed a bad light on the rest of us. And I’m also afraid of being judged.
Obviously rape is the most hideous crime. However falsely accusing rape is just as bad. (It’s the false accusation that makes it so). It’s terrible that false accusations do happen.
In Kobe Bryants case it the accuser backed out. If you read his statement to the police he admitted to having sex with her but claimed it was consensual.
There was some talk of evidence where she had sex with another guy right after (or before) Kobe. Therefore the "damage" didn’t necessarily come from having sex with Kobe.
Personally I think she was a messed up character looking to cash in. But I don’t know anything special.
I have to agree with you on that…
I’m also scared of filing charges right now, even though I’m doing it for closure, and yes, for justice. I have to tell them what I want out of it, and I don’t know exactly what to expect. I read up on the law, and he gets a minimum of 10 years in prison. How can I guarantee that he is not going to come after me when that time is up? How can I guarantee that he is not going to come after me if I do a trial?
I would be curious to see how long ago this rape was, compared to when the trial started. There are certain things that need to be addressed first before you even bother with this kind of stuff. First and foremost, I would want privacy and safety. But I wonder if they can help that at all?
That woman in the Kobe Bryant case sounds like a gold digger for sure.