The Time Has Come: The GOP Needs To End Its Opposition To Gay Marriage
The Republican party is down. Anybody disputing this is a fool. The Democrats have a super majority in the federal government, and nationally only roughly 1 in 5 Americans are identifying themselves as Republican. Yet the leaders of the party still don’t seem to be getting it. They seem to think that if they just keep giving us more of the same eventually things will get better.
Clearly, the party needs a paradigm shift in thinking. I think an evolving view toward gay marriage could be the first step in that direction. Because with states trending toward legalized gay marriage nationally (through votes of the people and/or their representatives and not the fiats of unelected judges) and younger generations caring less and less about the issue, if the GOP maintains the status quo on this issue the party is only going to be further marginalized.
The attempts to elevate Miss California to some sort of a cult hero because of her opposition to gay marriage is about the dumbest thing Republicans could be doing right now.
Outside of my concerns about gay marriage being declared a “right” by courts, and my concern for the issue being taken up by the federal government instead of being left to the various states, I’m ambivalent toward gay marriage. To each their own, I think. As long as it involves consenting adults, it doesn’t really bother me. Live and let live. I think this is the attitude Republicans need to adopt. You don’t have to condone homosexuality. Your churches don’t have to hold gay marriages. Just accept that some of your fellow citizens have different lifestyles and morals than you do and move on.
As the issue with Arlen Specter’s party switch has been discussed lately I’ve noticed Ronald Regan’s famous “litmus test” quote about what it means to be Republican being tossed about. Reagan said: “We should emphasize the things that unite us and make these the only ‘litmus test’ of what constitutes a Republican: our belief in restraining government spending, pro-growth policies, tax reduction, sound national defense, and maximum individual liberty.”
Don’t bans on gay marriage violate two points of that litmus test? Are gay marriage bans not an expansion of government? Do they not minimize, instead of maximize, individual liberty?
Now I understand that to take Reagan’s words to their extreme would be anarchy. We all understand that there is good cause for some government, and some restraint on individual liberty, and Reagan understood that too. We all want laws against crimes like theft and murder, and we all agree that we need police officers and court systems to enforce those laws.
But two adults loving one another and wanting to bind themselves together with a social contract, even if those adults happen to be of the same gender, is not a crime. So why not maximize individual liberty, and limit government, by letting gays marry?
Again, this does mean you have to approve of homosexual lifestyles. It doesn’t mean your church has to start holding gay marriages. It just means you have to have the courage of your convictions as a conservative. If we say limited government and maximum individual liberty then we should mean it. Even when the “liberty” in question may be distasteful to some of us.

