So, I’m Wondering…....Where Is All That Racism I Keep Hearing About?
I’m wondering about something.
Recently a comment was made from the Obama side of the political field that Hillary Clinton had “never been called a nigger”. And, yes, I used the word just as it was uttered, no asteriks or the code of calling it the “n-word”. And before we go any futher let me clarify one small point - the word is not part of my vocabulary, not something that EVER comes out of my mouth. I don’t even allow it to be used in my house so don’t start flinging the racist label at me for using it in this article in the context of a quote from someone else.
But here’s what I’m wondering about. I’m wondering just how many black Americans under a certain age have actually been called that word by a white person.
I realize that there is a generation of black Americans out there who did indeed live through a time of bitter and ugly racial discrimination and outright racism in this country, but just how many black Americans out there right now - excluding the aforementioned older generation - have had a white person point at them and call them a nigger?
I live in Louisiana and I don’t think I have ever heard a white person call a black person that. Have I heard the word in conversation? Sure. Everyone has whether you want to admit it or not. We all know or have passing acquaintance with some idiot who still thinks the old racial jokes are funny. They’re not. But I’ve heard that word coming from the mouths of black people far, far more than I’ve ever heard it come from whites. I’ve heard them call each other “nigger” thousands of times but I’ll be damned if I can think of one time where a white person has done the same.
I have to wonder just where all this racism is that we keep getting told all about over and over again. If anyone out there can show me where someone was denied a loan just because he or she was black - and not because they may have had bad credit - please do so. If anyone can illustrate where a restaurant denied someone service or forced them to sit in a segregated section because they were black, let me know. If anyone can show me where a white family in that restaurant got up and moved when a black family sat at the table next to them or refused to be seated next to a black family just because of their color please quote me chapter and verse, brother. I’m all ears.
And, no, I’m not talking about someone who got the boot from a restaurant or was asked to leave a business because they were disruptive or rude and then cried racism. I’m talking about instances of the genuine, dyed-in-the-wool racism that I keep being told is so pervasive in our society.
Sorry, but I just don’t see it.
Are there bound to be isolated incidents? Sure. Slack jawed mouth breathers are still out there - on both sides of the color coin. The Right Reverend Wright just proved that. But I just don’t think that the institutionalized racism that is being used as a tool to advance the careers of the Wrights and the Jacksons and the Sharptons of the world truly exists as such.
Unfairness abounds in life and if life is unfair to you at some point - and it will be - the fact that you’re black or red or yellow or white or Muslim or Jew or Druid probably doesn’t have as much to do with it as the fact that sometimes life is… just… plain… unfair.
Get over it and move on. Like it or not, nobody’s really stopping you because of your color these days. If you choose to stop yourself because of it, well, then, that’s another issue altogether.
Just stop blaming me.
















