Shameful: Republican Senator John Ensign Admits To Cheating On His Wife

A sincere apology, but there is no excuse for this.

LAS VEGAS – Republican Sen. John Ensign of Nevada, a leading conservative mentioned as a potential presidential candidate, admitted Tuesday he had an extramarital affair with a woman who was a member of his campaign staff. “Last year I had an affair. I violated the vows of my marriage,” Ensign said at a brief news conference. “It is the worst thing I have ever done in my life. If there was ever anything in my life that I could take back, this would be it.”
Ensign spokesman Tory Mazzola said the affair took place between December 2007 and August 2008 with a campaign staffer who was married to an employee in Ensign’s Senate office. Neither has worked for the senator since May 2008.
Ensign, 51, said he would not mention the name of the campaign aide involved in the affair. He described the woman and her husband as good friends.
“Our families were close,” a weary-looking Ensign said. “That closeness put me into situations which led to my inappropriate behavior. We caused deep pain to both families and for that I am sorry.”

I’m not much of a social conservative, but it seems to me that when you commit yourself to someone and then you betray that commitment you’ve given up any right to be trusted by other people ever again. Having a commitment go sour and breaking it off through divorce is one thing. Not a good thing, but at least its more honest than sneaking around behind your spouse’s back.
I don’t think anyone who cheats on his/her spouse is qualified to hold elected office. Is not honesty one of the most important virtues to have in a leader? And if a given leader can’t even be honest to his/her spouse, if a leader can’t even keep the promises he/she has made to those closest to them, then why should the electorate trust them?
Republican. Democrat. I don’t care what ideology the person in question adheres to. If a politician cheats on his/her wife that politician should be voted out of office.

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  • http://Array Wing Chun Geologist

    He still uses the term “nationalized health care” to refer to the Obama-Biden health care reforms.

    I prefer the term mandatory government health care myself.

  • robert108

    I guess the reason his party affiliation is being raised at all is because of the hypocrisy of these so-called social/family value conservatives.

    This is just crazy; having high moral standards is not a bad thing, and having low or no moral standards is not a good thing. People who believe in family values aren’t perfect, but the Marxist lefties try to enforce perfection while having no moral standards themselves, and trying to assert superiority because of it.

  • robert108

    So then you don’t believe in the possibility of forgiveness and redemption?

    Rob’s an atheist, so, no.

    AV: You lie when you call Obama’s fascist takeover of the healthcare industry “reform”; it’s the opposite of that. True reform would to be to eliminate govt meddling and return to a free enterprise healthcare system, like humans do when they are free to make their own choices.
    You Marxists just can’t stand individual freedom and independence.

  • Chris R

    I guess the reason his party affiliation is being raised at all is because of the hypocrisy of these so-called social/family value conservatives.

    I’m going to stop there.

    I am glad that he reconciled with his wife and has gotten counseling. In that respect, I wish him the best.

  • pparets

    Interesting question, Zig, very interesting….

  • http://www.willisms.com/ Zsa Zsa

    To err is human, to forgive is divine. Whoever said that is so right. I think he is deserving of forgiveness.

  • http://www.indymedia.org/en/index.shtml Angry Vertebrate

    Rob, for example, lies all the time. He still uses the term “nationalized health care” to refer to the Obama-Biden health care reforms. I hardly think Rob is in a position to pass judgment on others’ honesty.

    Rob must think it is OK to lie while propagandizing, but not OK to lie to ones wife? Or do only politicians have to be honest in Rob’s world?

  • pparets

    AngryV: Liberals love to play with words… bend the language. Thus government-controlled health care becomes “healthcare reforms”. State control of industry becomes a “stimulus package”. The murder of the pre-born becomes “freedom of choice”. See how that works?

    In his prophetic novel, 1984, Goerge Orwell called it ‘new-speak’.

  • badlands4

    Very sad for their families :( 2 people causing pain to untold amounts of people..very selfish.

    I hope he came clean to his wife BEFORE he had to come clean because of the blackmail. If so, then I will take his apology as sincere, but he needs to put trying to repair his marriage first, so if that means stepping down, then that is what he needs to do. He put himself in this position, so if he has to lose power..oh well.

  • http://www.indymedia.org/en/index.shtml Angry Vertebrate

    You couldn’t reply to my point could you Proof? Since Rob chooses a dishonest, propagandist term instead of a more accurate term then I’m correct (even Wing’s was more accurate). You’re a stickler for wording so you’ll know I’m right.

    Regarding RPDS, I have a condescending attitude to conservatives, so Rob’s dishonesty causes no derangement. One of my brothers was a care-worker for a while, and one of his clients was preverbal, and used to masturbate shamelessly and many, many times a day. Conservatives are the next step up in intellect from preverbals, but still far behind moderates and liberals.

  • sayanything-5371

    Dems have different rules

    Yeah, goon. We shitcan pervert republicans, the dems re-elect their pervs. Over and over again.

  • 2Hotel9

    And good job!! Y’all got sanni crying and ratshitting in 4 threads already. Now complain about how people are not nice to you, lying assed cunt.

  • Hannitized

    There is no such thing as RPDS….Rob isn’t worthy of consideration like that. He is truly a propagandist most of the time. Sometimes he gets it right, but either out of an inability to see things clearly or a lack of intelligence, he misses the obvious context of most passages and circumstances. Or, worst case, he lies intentionally.

    Proof is the Skipper’s little Gilligan, who rush’s out to defend Rob every time he gets something wrong.

    In this case, Rob got it right. But Rob is in no position to judge anyone with his shenanigans.

  • http://shayneblog.blogspot.com/ Shayne

    While I generally agree with most of your posts, I think that I have to disagree this time. While an affair is repugnant (no, I’ve never had one), I also believe people aren’t flawless.

    My feeling is that if he came clean with his spouse before he was caught and she forgave him (after all, I’d rather face the voters than my injured wife) then I think he deserves another chance.

    On the other hand, if he was caught first and THEN came clean, well that’s a different story. I don’t really know the details here so I can’t say. But I know in John Edwards case, he shouldn’t be trusted any longer. If Ensign only came clean (pardon the pun) after he was caught, then he should lose his political office.

  • http://sayanythingblog.com/readers/entry/homosexuality_is_wrong_-_a_compendium move_zig

    Ensign came forward because he was being blackmailed.

    You remember FileGate, massive, felonious violations, for which none of the guilty were held to account?

    I wonder how many Republican votes going in favor of Democratic legislature came at the cost of blackmail?

  • Dragonchef

    If infidelity is a reason for firing a politician then 99% of those in DC should be gone on both sides/ when it was CLinton and teddy boy the the democrats called it a witch hunt but the Republicans When it is one of the Republicans they want a full scale riot to get them out of office If you want to hold to the idea that if they lie in their marrage they can’t be trusted in office why do the voters keep them in office ( Kennedy not only cheated but was involved in a death of the one he cheated with- Frank who knows he has shown can’t be trusted inother ways as well

  • http://insanereindeer.blogspot.com/ Kenny

    You couldn’t reply to my point could you Proof? Since Rob chooses a dishonest, propagandist term instead of a more accurate term then I’m correct (even Wing’s was more accurate). You’re a stickler for wording so you’ll know I’m right.

    Of course, Obama is seeking to expand gov’t control of health care and eventually nationalize it. So nationalized health care is accurate.

    Conservatives are the next step up in intellect from preverbals, but still far behind moderates and liberals.

    You’re a moron and a lunatic.

    He is truly a propagandist most of the time. Sometimes he gets it right, but either out of an inability to see things clearly or a lack of intelligence, he misses the obvious context of most passages and circumstances. Or, worst case, he lies intentionally.

    I’d swear you were discribing yourself or any of the other leftists on this board.

  • http://ndgoon.blogspot.com/ goon

    Well hey that isn’t as bad as some of the other crap we have seen lately, the moron Larry Craig tapping his shoes in the MPLS Airport bathroom just to name one incident off the top of my head. Ofg course the left will use this as a distraction to put their marxist programs through.

  • robert108

    AV: Your use of the term “reform” is a blatant lie; Rob is telling the truth. Sorry you’re not intelligent enough to admit what the rest of us already know.

  • pparets

    Ensign came forward because he was being blackmailed.

  • http://sayanythingblog.com/readers/entry/homosexuality_is_wrong_-_a_compendium move_zig

    Republican. Democrat. I don’t care what ideology the person in question adheres to. If a politician cheats on his/her wife that politician should be voted out of office.

    Wasn’t MoveOn.org organized specifically to change the subject of Clinton’s purjury about his infidelity and taking place within the Oral Office?

    We’d better not hear a peep from Leftards on this one.

    They’ve set the bar low on this issue many years ago.

  • http://proof-proofpositive.blogspot.com/ proof_positive

    John Edwards cheated on his wife while promoting a campaign narrative in which he portrayed himself (with Mrs. Edwards’s cynical collaboration) as the devoted husband of his cancer-stricken wife. Now that’s hypocrisy. From the available evidence, John Ensign is nowhere near as bad a hypocrite as John Edwards. How’s that for faint praise?

    -James Taranto

  • http://ndgoon.blogspot.com/ goon

    Dems have different rules, look at Barney Frank the guy had a man running a prostitution ring out of his house, he is destroyed the mortage industry and yet he is still bumbling along babbling like a too bit circus clown in the US House.

  • sayanything-5371

    it seems to me that when you commit yourself to someone and then you betray that commitment you’ve given up any right to be trusted by other people ever again.

    I agree with you, but this doesn’t seem to phase democrats. They can even crash cars off of bridges killing their mistress and still keep getting re-elected for more than 40 more years.

  • sayanything-5371

    Obama used a similar situation to run unopposed for the Illinois senate seat by unsealing Jack Ryan’s divorce papers and blackmailing him into quiting the race. Obama is a ruthless politician who needs to be taken down a peg. I predict he will pull a Clinton and get caught.

  • lastofthepatriots

    Although I do not think his behavior is right…

    At least he is honest by addressing it directly and taking responsibility for his actions….

    A little different than Bill…”I did not have sexual relations…” Clinton or Elliot Spitzer who forced to do so..

  • 2Hotel9

    My, my, Senator Pants-round-ankles is leaving. And the leftards immediately start criticizing him for doing THAT.

    How typical.

  • conundrum

    The Nevada Republican once called on President Bill Clinton to resign, declaring “the truth must come out.” In October 2007, he was sharply critical of former Sen. Larry Craig, of Idaho, calling the Republican’s arrest in an airport bathroom sex sting “embarrassing for the Senate.”
    Enough to piss you off.

  • Mickey

    This sort of thing isn’t news anymore. It really doesn’t matter what political party the person is connected to.

    Don’t be so judgemental Rob. It could return to bite you in the ass some day.

  • http://ndgoon.blogspot.com/ goon

    Shayne if the Dems had to suffer the consquences like the Right I would be all for it but they just don’t have to resign when they get caught, Barney Frank and Kennedy should have been out of office a long time ago for their troubles they are still there.

  • 2Hotel9

    Its OK, he will simply switch over to the Democrat Party and get a nice Committee Chairmanship as a reward.

  • conundrum

    nothing like putting him on a pedestal.

  • conundrum

    I love the well they did it and didn’t pay for it so now we can logic. Condemn the action if you don’t agree with it. The “well everyone else is doing it so I can” excuse should have been put to rest when you were an eight year old.

  • robert108

    …how gays can’t marry because they’ll ruin it…

    Be honest, Rob; that’s not the argument at all. Homos can’t be married, because what they do isn’t marriage. All activists like you can do is to use the courts to force a redefinition of the word “marriage” on the vast majority of normal Americans.
    This is just another strawman to distract from your very uneven moral judgments. You want to destroy a guy’s career over an affair, but those who cause destruction on a daily basis are protected and absolved of the responsibility for the consequences of their stupid and destructive actions.
    Why the double standard?

    I can have the legislature declare you a giraffe, Rob, but that doesn’t make you one.
    You keep choosing ideology over human reality.

  • http://NotionsCapital.com/ Mike Licht

    John Ensign is a veterinarian. Is “Neuter and Spay the Only Way”?

    See:

    http://notionscapital.wordpress.com/2009/06/17/john-ensign-promise-keeper/

  • http://proof-proofpositive.blogspot.com/ proof_positive

    Rob, for example, lies all the time.

    RPDS strikes a liberal every four seconds!

  • sayanything-5371

    Nationalization, also spelled nationalisation, is the act of taking an industry or assets into the public ownership of a national government or state. Nationalization usually refers to private assets,

    Auto companies government controlled? Check

    Banks and Finance Institutions government controlled? Check

    Government taking control of health care through intimidation and coercion? Check

    Nationalization of the economy a fascist undertaking? Check

    Mainstream Media dedicated to promoting the policies of the state? Check.

    National Figurehead has own political organization outside his party? Check

    Ergo, Obama and the Liberal Statists are fascists.

  • ProudinNC

    from what I read on another blog, he and his wife were actually separated at the time. Also the husband of the woman came to him looking for “hush” money, so he decided to admit to it publicly.

    I’ll give him points for that at least.

  • TheTodd

    No sense filling the places in Congress with people who can’t even keep their wedding vows.

    What about people who regularly drive 10 miles over the speed limit? What about smokers? What about people who regularly use profanities? What about people who think Dane Cook is a talented comediean? What about people who drink in excess? What about people who don’t go to church regularly? What about people who regularly view pornography? What about people who purchase pate de foie gras? What about people who hunt from their pickup truck? What about people who litter? What about people who don’t recycle? What about people who have driven under the influence of alcohol? Is that worse than adultery?

    I don’t see why John Ensign having sex with a woman who is not his wife in any possible way compromises his ability to legislate. Do you?

  • http://suitepotato.blogspot.com/ sayanything-4808

    Rob:

    I’m not much of a social conservative, but it seems to me that when you commit yourself to someone and then you betray that commitment you’ve given up any right to be trusted by other people ever again.

    So then you don’t believe in the possibility of forgiveness and redemption?

    If you don’t want to go with the simplicity of Jesus’ watered down statement about turning the other cheek, then go with one of his fellow Jews at the time, Hillel, who was famous for the golden rule statement, “that which is repugnant to you, do not do to others”.

    You would find all paths to forgiveness and redemption being closed to be repugnant to you were you in that position. Deep down, all the confusions and naivete and ignorance and anger and fear pared away, you know that you want a way back. You’d howl in pain for the doors being shut in your face and rage that it was so unfair.

    When you pledge to honor and cherish in sickness and in health that applies to mental and emotional sickness as well. You do not pledge yourself simply for what you think you can get out of them, but things they have never been and might not ever be. You pledge yourself for what the two of you could be together. Turn your back and you will never achieve that and thus you break your pledge equally.

    The test is to transcend all that and learn to admit the true nature of you by that rule, that what you most dearly would want and need you should wish for and have and so you must be willing to give it before you can receive it.

    The question is, will you even remain open to the possibility of them being honestly penitent in their hearts or close off that possibility by turning a hard heart to them strictly because of your own feelings, which you can by will alone turn away as and when you wish. Since they are so transitory and fickle and subject to your will, it would follow then that they are less important than those of the other person who you cannot control and cannot assume have control of their own.

    The true disaster of our modern times when so much information is to be had and so little understanding of the meaning of any of it. How little people understand that the very concept of G-d and all that is a mutual assured survival system to keep the law of the jungle at bay, when as predators go most are so pathetic at it and much better off not tempting its return. No one accused the human race of being so very wise as they are smart though which is I suppose why wisdom is so startling and frightening that people put it in books that gather dust and are only remembered by the eccentric and the old.

  • http://sayanythingblog.com robport

    Rob, for example, lies all the time. He still uses the term “nationalized health care” to refer to the Obama-Biden health care reforms. I hardly think Rob is in a position to pass judgment on others’ honesty.

    Rob must think it is OK to lie while propagandizing, but not OK to lie to ones wife? Or do only politicians have to be honest in Rob’s world?

    But it is nationalized health care. That’s what a “government option” will lead to. It will run private options out of the market, and herd us all on to government health care.

    So then you don’t believe in the possibility of forgiveness and redemption?

    Sure. It’s not my place to forgive him (he didn’t cheat on me). Perhaps Senator Ensign can redeem himself at some point. But personally, I think he should be voted out of office.

    There are plenty of good, passionate, well qualified people who can hold political office. No sense filling the places in Congress with people who can’t even keep their wedding vows.

    By the way, for all your guys’ railing about the sanctity of marriage, and how gays can’t marry because they’ll ruin it, you sure are lax when it comes to the people who are actually ruining marriage.

    If only you had the courage of your convictions, Suite.

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