Public Breast Feeding

From Local6 News via the Drudge Report:

From now on, mothers who wish to breast-feed their babies are welcome to do so in Burger King restaurants.
The fast-food chain announced its new policy Friday, one day before a planned “nurse-in.”

Under the new policy, employees are told if a customer complains about a mother who’s breast-feeding, they are to explain that breast-feeding is permitted in the restaurant and suggest that the complaining customer move.

There are a couple of ways to look at this issue. On one hand breastfeeding is a perfectly natural activity taking place between a mother and her baby. On the other hand we have mothers who make a spectacle of the fact that they are breast feeding often causing discomfort for others, particularly males, in the area.
As with any issue we all need to exercise some common sense when finding ourselves in a breastfeeding situation. Those around the woman who is breastfeeding need to learn to make themselves comfortable with it. Avert your eyes, if need be, or move out of the area. Gawking and staring probably won’t be appreaciated.
For the mothers, you should make an effort to be discrete. I know most mothers already do but there are some who make a big production out of exposing their breast and letting the little darling suckle right out in plain view while staring down any who look like they’re going to complain. Remember that not everybody wants to get a look at your breast and the fact that you are exposing it is going to make some people uncomfortable. Especially men accompanied by their significant others. So be considerate. Find a quiet area and drape a blanket over the baby while its feeding.
A little common courtesey from both sides will make this issue easier for all of us.
I do, however, have another point to make on this topic. I have seen a few women, many of the members of the La Leche League, who have breastfed their children far beyond the 1 year range suggested by most pediatricians. Here is what the FAQ page on the La Leche website had to say:

A mother and her baby should breastfeed for as long as they wish to breastfeed. The American Academy of Pediatrics currently recommends that “breastfeeding continue for at least 12 months, and thereafter for as long as mutually desired.” * As solids are introduced, usually around the middle of the first year, your baby will shift his primary source of nutrition from your milk to other foods.
All the benefits of human milk–including nutritional and health–continue for as long as your baby receives your milk. In fact, as your baby takes less human milk, these advantages are condensed into what milk is produced. Many of the health benefits of human milk are dose related, that is, the longer the baby receives human milk, the greater are the benefits.

I have recently observed a child no younger than five years old who was still breastfeeding from his mother. Is there really any benefit for the child at that age? I’m no expert on the subject, but what types of benefits could the baby possibly be getting from its mother’s milk that it couldn’t get from an ordinary toddler’s diet?
Most health authorities, including Pediatrics magazine, say that breastfeeding should go on for approximately 12 months and then after that for as long as the mother and child want. I can understand a mother’s wish for their child to gain as many benefits from breastfeeding as possible but beyond a certain age it begins to become inappropriate. In this CNN story some of the mothers being questioned had children as old as 10 who were still breastfeeding. At that age one would begin to think that the mother is getting more out of it than the child.
So again, common sense has to come into play. By the time your child begins to get their permanent teeth it is probably time to stop breastfeeding, usually around 4-5 years. Most mother’s are simply unable to breastfeed that long anyway due to job restrictions and other pressures.
In the end the final decision is going to lay with the mother, but I don’t think its a very smart idea to have too many ten year olds still breastfeeding.

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  • http://Array sayanything-287

    Those around the woman who is breastfeeding need to learn to make themselves comfortable with it. Avert your eyes, if need be, or move out of the area. Gawking and staring probably won’t be appreciated.

    Why do those uncomfortable have to make themselves comfortable with it, who gave you the right to make such demands? Why isn’t the emphasis on the mothers being discreet, rather than making those offended get used to it just because you say so?

    Next, if they expose their breasts in a public place they have given up all their rights to privacy and any right to feel offended if the guy or lesbian at the next table stares at her breasts during the entire feeding process.

    I think it is perfectly natural, not sexual at all, and even in its own way it can be a beautiful picture. But, the emphasis always has been and should always remain on the woman to be discreet; and if she chooses not to, she might as well let the other one hang out too, she is an exhibitionist that gets her kicks from men others look at her breasts.

  • http://waltg.blogtownhall.com/ walt_g

    Hey! I’m a 75 year old male, married to the same woman 33 years, never been unfaithful, and I STILL like to see breasts! They are comforting, great to look at, nurturing, and sure do feel good. I look forward to going to WalMart or the mall, just to see more of em in a greater variety while my wife shops. Every now and then, some woman offers a really spectacular view. One time, one warm summer day while waiting in the car for my wife at the store, a young couple came out into the parking lot, obviously mad at each other and arguing. He got in the car across from me, and she dropped something on the ground on the passenger’s side. Wearing an oversized Tee-shirt with a really loose and large neck, minus a brazier, she bent over to pick up her stuff, and totally revealed a pair of sweet looking, jiggly, really succulent charmers. She got up and locked eye-balls with me, catching me in a full blown ear-to-ear grin, and broke out with a grin herself. The guy in the car was just FUMING!

    I think the most charming pictures I ever saw were of mothers breast feeding their babes. Never could understand why ANY fool would object to such a charming, delightful and comforting sight. Makes me wish I was an infant again.

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