Prostitution . . . Marriage . . . What’s The Difference?

TEHRAN,
Iran
— Iran’s hard-line interior minister is encouraging temporary
marriages as a way to avoid extramarital sex, a stance many in this conservative
country fear would instead encourage prostitution. A temporary marriage, or
"sigheh," refers to a Shiite Muslim tradition under which a man and
a woman sign a contract that allows them to be "married" for any length
of time, even a few hours. An exchange of money, as a sort of dowry, is often
involved.

This does indeed sound like a workaround for the legalities and moralities
of prostitution, but the sigheh, or nikah
mut‘ah
is actually an old tradition, even older than Islam itself.
Sexual relations are not the only purpose behind the sigheh; sometimes cohabiting
partners might use it to ease dress restrictions while living under the same
roof. Though the practice began in Arabia, Sunni Islam forbids this practice,
and it is mostly observed by Twelver Shia.

What I find remarkable is not that the sigheh is used to form ‘marriages’ lasting
only hours, but that it is used for relationships sometimes lasting many years,
with a expiration date set by the two parties (thus eliminating the need for
a divorce).

Why not? The libertarian in me loves the idea of things being reduced to contracts,
and if two parties consent, who else has a right to butt in?

Update: Er, I had forgotten that the girls’ age of consent for marriage in Iran is now nine-years-old. The libertarian in me does not condone the marriage, temporary (especially) or otherwise, of people too young to know what they are consenting to.

Crossposted from WILLisms.com

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  • http://Array DBdowner

    People can do whatever the hell they want. But I object to the common definition of something being changed by people who support the degeneration of language using governmental force to make those changes. Let marriage be marriage. And let the coercion or purchase of a woman of low moral character into a temporary agreement for sex that does not morally compromise the man engaging in it be what it is. One question though, is abortion legal in Iran or does the temporary wife get to raise all the children from all her marriages on her own? These men are disgusting perverts, their legal tactics just makes them a liar on top of being a perve.

  • DBdowner

    For a culture that mutilates women for unfaithfulness, how does the man cope with his temporary wife making babies with other temporary husbands? Or is the wife a disposable wife good for only one use? The whole thing is disgusting. What else would you expect from men expecting to get 12 hot virgins with no intestines or periods in heaven. A man who really loves his wife would be creeped out by the thought of losing the one he loves for 12 freaks. Islam is just a shining example of the height of human culture and expression.

  • http://www.kenmccracken.blogspot.com/ Ken McCracken

    Any children from the temporary marriage belong to the lineage of the father.

    Somehow though, I get the feeling that he won’t be the one changing the diapers.

    I agree with you about changing the definition of marriage – that is something that shouldn’t be tampered with.

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