Hyper-Active Isn’t Hyper-Good
ADHD is the modern term for this syndrome.
Have you ever seen Glen Beck’s program on Headline News? Very entertaining, but he has an attention span of a two-year-old child.
I have a pastor friend I'd like to talk about. He never reads this blog so I’m safe. He is so hyper that he tries to do three things at once and always fails. When he talks to me (which I try to avoid) he is constantly looking over my shoulder. I don’t know how he stays married. Frankly, he barely does and I understand her frustration.
I do business with some landscapers who are so hyper that they harass me to my limits.
I have learned not to sanction or encourage this behavior. Their inability to concentrate, stay focused or do deliberative consideration is a weakness that most people don’t grasp. I am happy that among most of my good friends there are few who I allow to abuse me with the inattentiveness the ADHD lifestyle seems to encourage. If you don’t pay attention, I’ll ignore you too.
I have had the misfortune to have people under me who were this kind of talk-talk-talk rattle-on type who couldn’t listen if you forced them. I have sometimes had to grab them by the hand, look them straight in the eye, yell at them, say "stop talking and listen!" Then they usually start talking about why they talk so much. Then I yell, "shut up!"
Cruel? Maybe, but is it more cruel to sanction this kind of aberrant behavior by ignoring it? Particularly if this person works for you? I think real cruelty is not dealing with it here and now. By the way, those few who I've had confrontations with about this are better now. They finally shut up.
The real crime is these people don’t develop the social skills of listening or hearing. They are so distracted by so much that they can’t take direction, can’t follow a series of instructions, can’t reason without talking past the point. It’s a handicap in society to be one of these poor souls.
I could blame it on all the gadgets we live with. I could blame it on TV. I could blame the school system...but what I really blame is a lack of discipline. I blame lazy parents. I blame a culture that seems to reward and encourage this kind of inanity.












